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	<description>And it don't stop 'til we make the lotus petals drop!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Why do I suffer so? by Hector Manuel</title>
		<link>http://thisiswhy.wordpress.com/2008/01/08/why-do-i-suffer-so/#comment-54</link>
		<dc:creator>Hector Manuel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 21:52:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you need humble. And then all of you say, will work in you. 
Hector Manuel</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you need humble. And then all of you say, will work in you.<br />
Hector Manuel</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Contentment Experiment by Komila Vashist</title>
		<link>http://thisiswhy.wordpress.com/2008/02/10/the-contentment-experiment/#comment-52</link>
		<dc:creator>Komila Vashist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Oct 2008 17:44:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very true, It is better to want what you have than to have what you want.

You have an amazing blog, I would like to add you in my favs, if you agree. 

Keep writing good stuff !

Njoi :-)

~komila
http://komila.wordpress.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very true, It is better to want what you have than to have what you want.</p>
<p>You have an amazing blog, I would like to add you in my favs, if you agree. </p>
<p>Keep writing good stuff !</p>
<p>Njoi <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>~komila<br />
<a href="http://komila.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow">http://komila.wordpress.com</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on What are we really doing? by The Green Witch</title>
		<link>http://thisiswhy.wordpress.com/2008/01/29/what-are-we-really-doing/#comment-48</link>
		<dc:creator>The Green Witch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 16:09:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heard someone say my name! :-)

I don&#039;t think we do only speak truth to those that know truth. In part it&#039;s true we do; others read and move on, perhaps taking only an iota of our meaning but keeping it with them.

Me, I write to try and organise in my own head what it is I mean, what it is I know. Ususally nothing!! If anyone&#039;s listening it&#039;s a bonus. Saves me from talking to myself!

I like the distinction between speaking truth and attempting to foist it on others - something I hate and detest. If enough speak, the world will ring like a bell.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heard someone say my name! <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think we do only speak truth to those that know truth. In part it&#8217;s true we do; others read and move on, perhaps taking only an iota of our meaning but keeping it with them.</p>
<p>Me, I write to try and organise in my own head what it is I mean, what it is I know. Ususally nothing!! If anyone&#8217;s listening it&#8217;s a bonus. Saves me from talking to myself!</p>
<p>I like the distinction between speaking truth and attempting to foist it on others &#8211; something I hate and detest. If enough speak, the world will ring like a bell.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Connectivity by guignole</title>
		<link>http://thisiswhy.wordpress.com/2008/02/06/connectivity/#comment-45</link>
		<dc:creator>guignole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2008 14:55:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How true. It&#039;s that, or you can be in the middle of some existential-spiritual nightmare and be warding off the demons while trying to pay bills and keep one&#039;s head, and that of his family&#039;s, well above the waterline.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How true. It&#8217;s that, or you can be in the middle of some existential-spiritual nightmare and be warding off the demons while trying to pay bills and keep one&#8217;s head, and that of his family&#8217;s, well above the waterline.</p>
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		<title>Comment on About ezparz by ezparz</title>
		<link>http://thisiswhy.wordpress.com/about/#comment-36</link>
		<dc:creator>ezparz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Feb 2008 15:44:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for visiting epiphanygirl. I&#039;m realizing that the point of making public one&#039;s personal spiritual path is to connect with people who are also on a personal path. It&#039;s like the no rules, no requirements, on your own time, church of the 21st century.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for visiting epiphanygirl. I&#8217;m realizing that the point of making public one&#8217;s personal spiritual path is to connect with people who are also on a personal path. It&#8217;s like the no rules, no requirements, on your own time, church of the 21st century.</p>
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		<title>Comment on About ezparz by girlwhocriedepiphany</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Feb 2008 02:12:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just came across your blog tonight and look forward to delving deeper into what you have to say.  I can really identify with your conscious sense of self (not to be confused with self consciousness) in the process of blogging, especially about matters of the spirit.  When I started my blog back in October I told a lot of people about it right away, so I felt the need to mind my manners and feign a sense of confidence I did not necessarily possess.  It is nice to hear someone articulate the whole tension of feeling compelled to write and get ideas out there even when that drive seems antithetical to spiritual development.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just came across your blog tonight and look forward to delving deeper into what you have to say.  I can really identify with your conscious sense of self (not to be confused with self consciousness) in the process of blogging, especially about matters of the spirit.  When I started my blog back in October I told a lot of people about it right away, so I felt the need to mind my manners and feign a sense of confidence I did not necessarily possess.  It is nice to hear someone articulate the whole tension of feeling compelled to write and get ideas out there even when that drive seems antithetical to spiritual development.</p>
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		<title>Comment on About ezparz by filjr</title>
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		<dc:creator>filjr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2008 18:02:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you better give me some foto credit!
looking forward to reading your blog!
xoxofiljr.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you better give me some foto credit!<br />
looking forward to reading your blog!<br />
xoxofiljr.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Who am I to criticize? by guignole</title>
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		<dc:creator>guignole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2008 16:10:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Almost all pain carries a lesson. The pain form being burned by the fire, the pain from a spurned lover, the pain of having a loved one pass away can all impart some lesson or wisdom we did not have before.

Life is to be experienced. Lessons are secondary, they are ways for us to move through the world and navigate dangers and emotions and events and people. how you experience life come in part form lessons learned and from just being.

Does Zen Master = Buddhahood? I&#039;m not sure.

I&#039;ve heard that even the most enlightened people are imperfect. It is these imperfections that can drive us closer or into enlightened states. We must be apart form the world and of it (did Jesus say that or Buddha?).

As for the vessel, it reminds of that story about the Zen master who during a tea ceremony with an Emperor pours tea into a small cup until it is overflowing as lesson. The Emperor must first empty his cup before he can fill it again with wisdom and new experiences and lessons.

Emptiness is form, form is emptiness. The overused Yin/Yang. The dual in the one. Everything.

I&#039;m glad I found you guys. This is interesting and fun!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Almost all pain carries a lesson. The pain form being burned by the fire, the pain from a spurned lover, the pain of having a loved one pass away can all impart some lesson or wisdom we did not have before.</p>
<p>Life is to be experienced. Lessons are secondary, they are ways for us to move through the world and navigate dangers and emotions and events and people. how you experience life come in part form lessons learned and from just being.</p>
<p>Does Zen Master = Buddhahood? I&#8217;m not sure.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve heard that even the most enlightened people are imperfect. It is these imperfections that can drive us closer or into enlightened states. We must be apart form the world and of it (did Jesus say that or Buddha?).</p>
<p>As for the vessel, it reminds of that story about the Zen master who during a tea ceremony with an Emperor pours tea into a small cup until it is overflowing as lesson. The Emperor must first empty his cup before he can fill it again with wisdom and new experiences and lessons.</p>
<p>Emptiness is form, form is emptiness. The overused Yin/Yang. The dual in the one. Everything.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad I found you guys. This is interesting and fun!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Who am I to criticize? by ezparz</title>
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		<dc:creator>ezparz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2008 12:33:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So I was right about the &#039;grave responsibility.&#039; An adult wouldn&#039;t keep silent as a child reached for fire because our empathy, our &#039;within hurt,&#039; doesn&#039;t want the child to get burned. 

So when you become a Zen Master you know all feeling within and don&#039;t want anyone in humanity to do what will inevitably create pain.

I don&#039;t want to believe the vessel is cracked. What I want to believe is we choose how enlightened we are at any given moment. The vessel is whole, it&#039;s the contents that are tainted. We must continually refresh the contents of the vessel. 

Masters keep it flowing continually. Their vessel is rarely tainted.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So I was right about the &#8216;grave responsibility.&#8217; An adult wouldn&#8217;t keep silent as a child reached for fire because our empathy, our &#8216;within hurt,&#8217; doesn&#8217;t want the child to get burned. </p>
<p>So when you become a Zen Master you know all feeling within and don&#8217;t want anyone in humanity to do what will inevitably create pain.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t want to believe the vessel is cracked. What I want to believe is we choose how enlightened we are at any given moment. The vessel is whole, it&#8217;s the contents that are tainted. We must continually refresh the contents of the vessel. </p>
<p>Masters keep it flowing continually. Their vessel is rarely tainted.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Who am I to criticize? by billap</title>
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		<dc:creator>billap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2008 04:50:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think &quot;reminding&quot; is a good word. Or even &quot;minding,&quot; if the master is telling us something that we haven&#039;t yet understood.

It&#039;s like an adult telling a child not to put his hand in fire. If the child were able, he might get all wrapped up in whether it is &quot;right&quot; or &quot;wrong&quot; to disobey the injunction; he might begin to question the motivations of the adult, suspecting an attempt to deprive him of a wonderful new experience; he might get angry at the adult for daring to tell him how to live his own life.

All of this is a waste of time, because the adult, coming from a position of greater knowledge and experience, was simply telling the child a fact: put your hand in fire and you&#039;ll get hurt.

Similarly, the Zen master is not indicating that judging is &quot;wrong&quot; and not-judging is &quot;right.&quot; He&#039;s just stating a fact: judge and you&#039;ll get hurt.

Why do we keep putting our hand in the fire? Because we don&#039;t have the knowledge and the experience of the master.

How do we get it? That&#039;s the rub. We can try not to judge; we can try not to think; we can try all sorts of meditation and exercises. But the very &quot;I&quot; who is doing the trying is broken!

Can the cracked vessel fix itself?

P.S. I&#039;m just about to post a reading on creativity and divinity, and since you seem to be interested in the creative life, I thought I&#039;d give you a head&#039;s up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think &#8220;reminding&#8221; is a good word. Or even &#8220;minding,&#8221; if the master is telling us something that we haven&#8217;t yet understood.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like an adult telling a child not to put his hand in fire. If the child were able, he might get all wrapped up in whether it is &#8220;right&#8221; or &#8220;wrong&#8221; to disobey the injunction; he might begin to question the motivations of the adult, suspecting an attempt to deprive him of a wonderful new experience; he might get angry at the adult for daring to tell him how to live his own life.</p>
<p>All of this is a waste of time, because the adult, coming from a position of greater knowledge and experience, was simply telling the child a fact: put your hand in fire and you&#8217;ll get hurt.</p>
<p>Similarly, the Zen master is not indicating that judging is &#8220;wrong&#8221; and not-judging is &#8220;right.&#8221; He&#8217;s just stating a fact: judge and you&#8217;ll get hurt.</p>
<p>Why do we keep putting our hand in the fire? Because we don&#8217;t have the knowledge and the experience of the master.</p>
<p>How do we get it? That&#8217;s the rub. We can try not to judge; we can try not to think; we can try all sorts of meditation and exercises. But the very &#8220;I&#8221; who is doing the trying is broken!</p>
<p>Can the cracked vessel fix itself?</p>
<p>P.S. I&#8217;m just about to post a reading on creativity and divinity, and since you seem to be interested in the creative life, I thought I&#8217;d give you a head&#8217;s up.</p>
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